Cyberstalking – Fixated Obsessive Unwanted Repeated (FOUR) Behaviour

Uncover the dark tactics of this Finnish cyberstalker employing DARVO strategies to manipulate and evade responsibility. This article delves into the beginning of a disturbing patterns of FOUR behavior: Fixated, Obsessive, Unwanted, and Repeated stalking.

Typically, we expect that a rational individual or even a passionate keyboard warrior troll recognizes when they may have crossed boundaries in their online interactions.

Especially when they are aware that they have been exposed for their digital offences and that incriminating evidence of their statements had been reported to law enforcement. One would assume that a person in this situation would have the common sense to maintain a low profile, especially regarding their targeted victims.

In the below examples Google search of the name of Sarli Jayakody, examples from July 2022, which reveal the unsettling, obsessive behavior of a cyber stalker from Finland. This stark illustration underscores the alarming persistence and fixation characteristic to carry out online harassment

A behavior, based on the examples which was identified by a member of Hertfordshire Cyber Crime Unit in April 2021 as being obsessive

One fascinating detail in the history of Sarli Jayakody’s online presence is the significant lack of content surrounding the name for nearly a decade. The only notable mentions arose in connection with the popular video game, Batman: Arkaham City 2011. The only other entry related to Sarli Jayakody was within a document related to Lambeth Council, a previous employee of Sarli Jayakody.

It’s clear that the Finnish cyber stalker is attempting to connect himself with Sarli Jayakody through these posts. This strategy likely aims to undermine the credibility of the reports already filed against him.

The examples above highlight this individual’s troubling behavior, shedding light on the tactics often employed by cyber stalkers to manipulate perceptions and discredit their victims known as DARVO.

The four warning signs of stalking are known as FOUR

FIXATED

OBSESSIVE

UNWANTED

REPEATED

Recognizing the four warning signs of stalking, commonly referred to as the FOUR, is crucial for personal safety and awareness. The FOUR encompasses: Frequent unwanted contact, which includes persistent calls, texts, or emails; Obsessive behaviors, where an individual exhibits an unhealthy fixation; Uninvited appearances, such as showing up at your home or workplace; and Repetitive following, indicating a physical pursuit of the victim. Understanding these warning signs can empower individuals to take proactive measures and seek help.

It is crucial to recognize that an individual exhibiting such behaviors may be struggling with a mental health issue. This highlights the pressing need for increased awareness and understanding of the boundaries shattered by the disturbing actions of a cyber stalker.

If you read the previous article. Then you would be aware that the time period when this cyber stalker states I was teaching him kicks would be with the time period when I was engaged with the Police and solicitors in trying to get help against the actions of this particular individual.

It is highly possible I may have taught my cyber stalker this kick. Due to the fact this cyber stalker provided proof he was able to access my camera, take photos and images of me without my knowledge, to use as a threat.

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